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Why Both Parties to a New Jersey Divorce Need Their Own Legal Counsel

There are occasions in which a New Jersey divorce seems simpler and uncontested at the outset. In some instances, this remains the state of affairs throughout the course of a marriage dissolution proceeding. When a New Jersey divorce appears to be uncomplicated and uncontested at the outset, there are occasions in which parties to a divorce do not retain legal counsel. There are other cases in which a divorcing couple wonders if it is possible to retain only one attorney in their case.

At the outset, it is important to note that one attorney is not permitted to represent both parties in a divorce proceeding. This violates the rules of professional responsibility that govern the conduct of New Jersey divorce lawyers. We focus on different aspects of this professional conflict and other reasons why parties to a New Jersey divorce need their own legal counsel. These reasons include:

  • Conflict of interest
  • Different interests
  • Negotiation power
  • Legal expertise
  • Lessen emotional tension
  • Paperwork
  • Court representation
Conflict of Interest

In a divorce case, it is ethically impossible for a single attorney to represent both parties involved in a fair and neutral manner. It's important for each party to have their own attorney to ensure fair and unbiased representation. As we discussed, it is a conflict of interest for one attorney to try to effectively advocate for the best interests of both spouses, as those interests may inherently conflict. And as was noted, but bears repeating, the attorney code of conduct in New Jersey prohibits representation of both parties in a marriage dissolution case.

Different Interests

Even in a seemingly amicable divorce, where both parties agree on the majority of issues, it's crucial to remember that both parties have different interests that need to be considered and advocated for. Each party having their own attorney ensures that their individual interests and rights are protected throughout the divorce process. Every party's situation is unique, and they deserve representation that takes their specific circumstances into account. As an aside, it is important to note that a divorce case that commences in what seems to be an amicable fashion initially can devolve into something entirely different and highly contentious.

Negotiation Power

Divorce proceedings often involve negotiations over property division, child custody, alimony, and other crucial matters. Each party needs their own attorney to negotiate terms that are in their best interest. A personal attorney can ensure a fair and equitable division by advocating strongly for their client, using their expertise and understanding of the law to negotiate the best possible outcome.

Legal Expertise

The law, particularly family law, is complex and often difficult to navigate for the layperson. Each party needs their own attorney, who is equipped with the necessary knowledge and experience, to navigate through legal issues and ensure their rights are upheld. An attorney's understanding of the law and experience in matters of divorce will provide invaluable guidance to their client.

Lessen Emotional Tension

Going through a divorce can be an emotionally taxing experience. An attorney can provide emotional support, offer objective advice, and keep things professional. Having an attorney by your side can help maintain a clear and focused approach towards the proceedings, which is especially beneficial during such a difficult and emotional time.

Paperwork

A divorce involves a significant amount of paperwork, including filing legal documents, preparing financial statements, and drafting agreements. Errors or omissions in these forms can have serious consequences, including delays in proceedings or unfavorable outcomes. An attorney can help ensure all paperwork is filled out correctly, thoroughly, and submitted in a timely manner, reducing the risk of such problems.

Court Representation

Finally, if the divorce proceedings go to court, each party will need their own attorney to represent them. Court procedures can be complex and intimidating, and an experienced attorney can advocate effectively on your behalf, ensuring your voice is heard and your rights are protected. The courtroom can be a daunting environment, and having a knowledgeable and confident attorney by your side can make a significant difference in the outcome of the case. Indeed, suitable legal representation can make the difference between prevailing on matters of importance to you in your case and failing to achieve this level or success. If you have any questions concerning a New Jersey divorce, call (201) 845-7400 for a free consultation.

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